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Indonesian Culture & Custom

Indonesia has a diverse mix of cultures and customs rather than a single one, but the effect of mass education, mass media and a policy of government-orchestrated nationalism have created a sort of Indonesian national culture and custom.

Traditional Lifestyle

'Keeping face' is important to Indonesians and they are generally extremely courteous - criticisms are not spoken directly and they will usually agree with what you say rather than offend. They will also prefer to say something rather than appear as if they don't know the answer. They mean well but when you ask how to get somewhere, you may often find yourself being sent off in the wrong direction!

Taboos

Indonesians will accept any lack of clothing on the part of poor people, who cannot afford them; but for Westerners, thongs (flip-flops), bathing costumes, shorts or strapless tops are considered impolite.
      Women are better off dressing modestly - revealing tops are just asking for trouble. Short pants are marginally acceptable if they are the baggy type which almost reach the knees.
      While places of worship are open to all, permission should be requested to enter, particularly when ceremonies are in progress, and you should ensure that you're decently dressed. Always remove footware before entering a mosque, and it is customary to take shoes off before entering someone's house.Indonesian family

Avoiding Offence

Asians resent being touched on the head - the head is regarded as the seat of the soul and is therefore sacred. In traditional Javanese culture, a lesser person should not have their head above that of a senior person, so you may sometimes see Javanese duck their heads when greeting someone, or walk past with dropped shoulders as a mark of respect.
When handing over or receiving things remember to use the right hand - the left hand is used as a substitute for toilet paper. To show great respect to a high-ranking or elderly person, hand something to them using both hands. Talking to someone with your hands on your hips is impolite and is considered a sign of contempt, anger or aggressiveness - it's the same stance taken by characters in traditional dance and operas to signal these feelings to the audience. Handshaking is customary for both men and women on introduction and greeting.
      The correct way to beckon to someone is with the hand extended and a downward waving motion of all the fingers (except the thumb). It looks almost like waving goodbye. The Western method of beckoning, with the index finger crooked upward, won't be understood and is considered rude.
      An innate curiosity and interest in other people, combined with a desire to practise English, means that there's a set of stock questions that everybody asks you. It's hard to know how to react when you're sitting on a bus or boat and someone asks you 'Where are you going?'. The usual stock questions in Indonesia are: Where are you from? Where are you going? What is your name? How long have you been in Indonesia? Are you married? What is your religion?
      The question to be careful of is the one on religion; Indonesians presume that Westerners are Christian. If you are an atheist you'll be better off not telling them; in Indonesia the logic is that Communists are atheists, and therefore if you are an atheist you must be a Communist.
      The question about marriage should be treated carefully too. Indonesians find it absurd that anyone would not want to be married, and being divorced is a great shame. Your social relations will go more smoothly if you say you are 'already married' or 'not yet married'. If you are over age 30, it's better to be 'married' or else people will assume there must be some defect in your personality. If you really can't handle being 'married', you could say your spouse is dead, which is considered less of a tragedy than being divorced.
      In the tourist areas, the relaxed morals of Westerners are tolerated, but elsewhere unmarried couples sharing a hotel room may cause embarrassment if not moral outrage. Say you are married.


ANCILLARY SERVICES:
| Budget Pick up | Car Rental | Guiding & Interpreting |
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| Mt. Salak Hike | Ecotour | City Tour | Kampong Tour |
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| Budget Tour | Luxurious Tour | Adventurous Tour | Weekend Homestay |
SOUVENIR:
| Wooden Puppets |

FACTS:
| Culture & Custom | Transportation Recommendation |

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